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Giving Head
A few weeks ago, Malin James posted this really interesting, nuanced, sneaky-hot piece about her ‘blow job spectrum’, and the way her attitude to sucking cock has evolved and shifted across different...
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“Exerting yourself to the fullest within your individual limits: that’s the essence of running, and a metaphor for life—-and for me, for writing as well.” ― Haruki Murakami, What I Talk About When I...
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Reflect
I arrived back at the office to pick up my stuff two hours after my evening run. Central London was muggy tonight, and I’d never really managed to bring my body temperature back down to its resting...
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The Swimming Pool
One of my dirty little secrets is that I’ve actually read very little classic erotica. I have some Nin on my bookshelf, and I checked out the rude bits in Lady Chatterley’s Lover as a horny 16 year...
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On Cheating
Late last year, I got an email from someone who reads my blog. That happens on a reasonably regular basis: people have questions and comments, which they’re not always comfortable posting publicly, or...
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Magpie
At Eroticon 2014, Molly Moore and Stella Ottewill (then Harper Eliot) ran a session on labels, and on the positive value attached to finding specific ways to describe ourselves sexually. After...
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Let’s talk about sex…
So this afternoon I spent a very pleasant hour or so at the Wellcome Collection’s Institute of Sexology. The exhibition is fairly small, but they’ve managed to gather all sorts of fascinating items and...
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On changing my mind
In the last two years I’ve posted here a little over 200 times. I’ve posted stories, essays, photos, interviews, and contests. I’ve posted stuff that people have loved, stuff they’ve hated, and stuff...
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Iris
“And I’d give up forever to touch you ‘Cause I know that you feel me somehow You’re the closest to heaven that I’ll ever be And I don’t wanna go home right now” On our second date she drove me to a...
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On sexualising nudity
I haven’t really written about it here, but one of the more surreal things I’ve done this year – maybe any year – was an interview with Rachel Kramer Bussel for a piece she was writing on dick pics....
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On STIs
I’ve alluded at various points over the last three months to the positive impact marathon training has had on my body. Running 30 miles a week has not just helped me to lose a bit of weight, it’s...
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24 hours (reprise)
One afternoon last August, mired in a bit of a writing slump, I sat down and rattled off this post, on all the memories and fantasies that had been turning me on over the previous 24 hours. Like most...
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Cock Rings 101
So after I wrote this piece of (NSFW) whimsy the other night, a couple of people got in touch with more serious questions about cock rings. Questions like “hey, I don’t really understand cock rings –...
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How to fit a cock ring…
…otherwise known as my very first attempt at video-blogging! This one, obviously, is NSFW. (ALSO, my voice doesn’t sound like this in real life! This is Weird Video Voice, and I just…well, I can’t even…)
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The Male Perspective
Yesterday someone tweeted a link to something I wrote over 18 months ago now, about sex and periods. I don’t generally enjoy re-reading old blog posts, in the same way I don’t like listening to...
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Size Doesn’t Matter
A few weeks ago I tweeted a link to this excellent post by Hyacinth Jones, on her love of big dicks. I thought the way she described her preference for well-endowed men was straightforward, honest, and...
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On First Dates
I’ve been thinking a lot today about how much I love first dates. First dates are an entirely separate, unique category of human interaction. They come with their own success criteria and are governed...
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On Denial (and topping from the bottom…)
I have, at best, a mixed relationship with pain when it comes to sex. My own appetite for it is very low – I can tolerate, and will sometimes even enjoy, a good spanking, but anything beyond that just...
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Dick Pics interview
Back in August, I was lucky enough to be interviewed by Rachel Kramer Bussel for her sex column in the Philadelphia City Paper. It turned out to be one of the newspaper’s final editions, as after...
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On sleeping together
A little while ago I was talking to someone about a guy she’d been seeing over the summer. They first met in a bar one Friday night, and went back to his place for sex at the end of the evening. “When...
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